Hot Flash Chronicles

Welcome to Hot Flash Chronicles, the funniest, most unfiltered podcast for midlife women who are sweating through menopause and laughing through the madness! Join Angie and Shelly, two best friends, caffeine-fueled grandmas, and slightly inappropriate midlife queens, as they navigate hot flashes, hormone havoc, aging disgracefully, and the absolute chaos of midlife. From celebrity crushes (hello, Jason Momoa) to menopause meltdowns, brain fog fails, and hilarious midlife rants, no topic is off-limits. Whether you’re dealing with night sweats, mood swings, or just trying to survive family drama with a glass of wine in hand—this is your new favorite podcast. 💥 What You’ll Get: ✔ Menopause & midlife humor (because if we don’t laugh, we’ll cry) ✔ Unfiltered conversations about aging, parenting, and relationships or whatever is on our minds ✔ Hot takes on pop culture, celebrity gossip, and WTF moments ✔ Listener stories & real talk on navigating midlife madness ✔ Trend challenges & embarrassing moments that will make you LOL 🎧 Subscribe now and join the conversation: 📌 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles 📌 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles 📌 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles 📌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast 📌 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles 📌 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles 👉 New episodes every Monday and Friday
Episodes
Episodes



Friday May 23, 2025
26. Technology: From Dial-Up to Downloading: Our Tech Glow-Up
Friday May 23, 2025
Friday May 23, 2025
🎙️ Hot Flash Chronicles – Episode: From Dial-Up to Downloading: Our Tech Glow-Up 📞📺📲
We Remember When Phones Had Cords and TV Shows Had Commercials
In this episode, Angie & Shelly rewind the clock to talk about the way technology has totally transformed our lives—from the simple joy of a microwave to the not-so-simple stress of losing your phone for 10 seconds. It’s a laugh-filled, nostalgia-soaked journey from analog chaos to digital overload... and everything in between.
🔌 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
📞 When Phones Were Furniture – Busy signals, party lines, and calling a house instead of a person. We had to wait to talk to people, y’all.
📺 TV Guide, VCRs & Reruns – Missing your favorite show meant hoping it aired again... in the summer.
🥔 Microwaves, Dishwashers & Air Fryer Magic – From baking a potato in 3 minutes to realizing we basically live in The Jetsons now.
📱 Smartphones Took Over Everything – Our calendars, maps, recipes, reminders, cameras, and literal sense of direction all live in our pockets now.
🧠 Too Much Tech? – We talk about dopamine, screen addiction, curated social feeds, and why we’re trying to unplug more (on purpose).
📦 Also: Amazon deliveries, filtered selfies, puppy videos, and how we're now recording podcasts on what used to be sci-fi gadgets.
📢 Follow & Support the Podcast!🎧 Podcast Episodes: https://hotflashchroniclespodcast.podbean.com🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hot-flash-chronicles/id1802239722🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f8iMNCItgjL79nC1jXA5w📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles💖 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles🌐 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles
🕹️ Got a favorite piece of old-school tech you still miss? Tell us what you couldn’t live without in the 80s or 90s. We’ll be over here binge-watching a full season with no commercials, just feeling grateful.



Wednesday May 21, 2025
25. BONUS EPISODE! Roommates in Our 50s?! Let’s Do This.
Wednesday May 21, 2025
Wednesday May 21, 2025
🎙️ Hot Flash Chronicles – Episode: Roommates in Our 50s?! Let’s Do This. 🏡🐾
Six Dogs, Two Couples, and One Big Adventure
This week, Angie & Shelly give you a behind-the-scenes peek into a huge life shift—they’re becoming roommates! Yup, two couples in one house, six dogs between them, and a whole lot of coffee, board games, and potential chaos. In true Hot Flash fashion, this episode is filled with laughs, vulnerability, and the kind of honest friendship that makes everything feel doable.
🛋️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
🐾 Brady Bunching the Dogs – Six small dogs, one house, and zero idea how they’ll all get along... but they’re willing to try.
📦 Why It’s Happening – Shelly and Phil are selling their house and planning a move to England. Angie and Jeff have space—and hearts—big enough to welcome them in.
🎲 Board Games Over Bars – Why shared wine nights, puzzle trays, and game nights sound way better than clubbing at this stage of life.
🧠 Communication Is Everything – From shared spaces to laundry logistics, the key to co-living success is open, honest conversations.
🛠️ Real Talk About Modern Living – Why we think shared housing and multi-family living are making a comeback (and why that’s not a bad thing at all).
💬 What Happens When Two Loud Women and Two Quiet Men Share a House? – We’re about to find out. Spoiler: it’ll include wine, dogs, laughter, and some very chill husbands.
📢 Follow & Support the Podcast!🎧 Podcast Episodes: https://hotflashchroniclespodcast.podbean.com🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hot-flash-chronicles/id1802239722🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f8iMNCItgjL79nC1jXA5w📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles💖 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles🌐 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles
💬 Ever lived with a friend as an adult? Thinking of combining households to save money or build community? Tell us what worked, what didn’t, or what we should watch out for. And follow along—this is going to be fun. 🛏️🍷



Monday May 19, 2025
24. Boundaries: Saying No Without Feeling Like a Jerk
Monday May 19, 2025
Monday May 19, 2025
🎙️ Hot Flash Chronicles – Episode: Boundaries: Saying No Without Feeling Like a Jerk 🚫💖
Because “No” is a Full Sentence—and Sometimes a Lifesaver
In this empowering and hilariously real episode, Angie & Shelly dive into the often-messy, always-important world of setting boundaries. Whether you’re a recovering people pleaser, a “yes” person by habit, or someone just learning how to say “I’m not okay with that”—this one’s for you.
🛑 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
📆 How to Say No Without Guilt – The 3 things to ask yourself before committing to anything.
🙅♀️ People-Pleasing Detox – Why “helping” and “pleasing” aren’t always the same, and how to stop putting everyone else first.
🧠 The Power of Self-Reflection – Learning to recognize your limits before you're on the edge of burnout.
🔄 No = Yes (To Something Else) – Every “no” is a “yes” to something else—your peace, your priorities, your actual time.
💬 Real Talk, Real Scripts – From saying “I can’t commit to that right now” to “Have I done something I need to apologize for?”—we’re giving you the tools and phrases that work.
💡 Boundaries in Friendships, Work, and Dating – Navigating everything from emotional labor to professional pricing with clarity and confidence.
📢 Follow & Support the Podcast!🎧 Podcast Episodes: https://hotflashchroniclespodcast.podbean.com🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hot-flash-chronicles/id1802239722🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f8iMNCItgjL79nC1jXA5w📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles💖 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles🌐 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles
💬 If you’ve ever said “yes” when you really meant “hell no,” this episode is your permission slip. Got a boundary win (or fail)? Share it with us—we're learning right alongside you.



Friday May 16, 2025
23. Pet Peeves & Public Meltdowns
Friday May 16, 2025
Friday May 16, 2025
🎙️ Hot Flash Chronicles – Episode: Pet Peeves & Public Meltdowns 😤🧾
From Coupons to Clicks—We’re Airing All the Grievances
In this firecracker of an episode, Angie & Shelly dive headfirst into their most irrational (and totally justified) pet peeves. From grocery store coupon chaos to people who smack their food like it’s a competitive sport, nothing is off the table. This episode is hilarious, unfiltered, and guaranteed to have you shouting “YESSS!” at least once.
🐾 What You'll Hear in This Episode:
🛒 The Checkout Line Nightmare – Coupon clippers, coin counters, and why Angie might need her own express lane to hell.
😤 Punctuality Problems – The truth about being chronically late, flakey friends, and the ultimate disrespect: “I thought we said 1-ish.”
🚗 Blinkers Exist for a Reason – Shelly's hot take on drivers who think turn signals are optional.
👄 Mouth Noises & Slurping Trauma – Smacking, brushing teeth sounds, loud kissing—why Angie may never recover.
🍪 Grocery Store Gigs & Yeast Cream Missions – Why Shelly accidentally becomes an employee at every store she enters (with one truly unforgettable assist).
🏠 Clutter, Clix & Social Bullies – From rude social cliques to inconsiderate comments, we’re talking all things people do that make us want to scream into a pillow.
📢 Follow & Support the Podcast!🎧 Podcast Episodes: https://hotflashchroniclespodcast.podbean.com🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hot-flash-chronicles/id1802239722🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f8iMNCItgjL79nC1jXA5w📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles💖 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles🌐 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles
🙃 Got a pet peeve that makes you irrationally angry? We want to hear it. Drop it in the comments and let us commiserate together. And yes—people who chew with their mouth open... we’re looking at you.



Monday May 12, 2025
22. May-December Romance: Cougar Town, Cub Love & Age Gap Real Talk
Monday May 12, 2025
Monday May 12, 2025
🎙️ Hot Flash Chronicles – Episode: May-December Romance: Cougar Town, Cub Love & Age Gap Real Talk 💋🕰️
Older, Younger, Who Cares? Let’s Talk Age-Gap Relationships Without the Judgment
In this refreshingly honest and wildly entertaining episode, Angie & Shelly dive into May-December relationships—those love stories where age is more than just a number (but still... a number). Whether you're dating younger, older, or just curious what it's like to be a “cougar” or a “cub,” this episode dishes out stories, laughs, and zero judgment.
💌 What You'll Hear in This Episode:
👠 Cougar Town Origins – Shelly's wild ride through dating younger men and the insecurities that came with it... at first.
🧠 Why Confidence Is the Sexiest Thing – The appeal of older women, the authenticity of knowing who you are, and why being unapologetically YOU is magnetic.
👶 Younger Men & Older Women – Breaking down the stereotypes, from sugar babies to steamer-trunk baggage comparisons (you’ll get it when you listen).
💡 Why Age ≠ Maturity – From 30-year-olds with big life experience to 60-year-olds who still ghost—age tells you nothing about someone’s readiness.
📱 Dating App Dynamics – Why broadening your age filters might just surprise you (and how society views women doing the same thing men have done forever).
💍 The Final Husband Chronicles – How Shelly met and married Phil (15 years younger!) and why it works beautifully.
📢 Follow & Support the Podcast!🎧 Podcast Episodes: https://hotflashchroniclespodcast.podbean.com🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hot-flash-chronicles/id1802239722🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f8iMNCItgjL79nC1jXA5w📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles💖 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles🌐 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles
🔥 Who cares what society says? If it’s legal and you’re both into it, go get that groove back. Whether you’re a cougar, a cub, or somewhere in between—we see you. Tell us your May-December story!



Friday May 09, 2025
21. The Reality TV Shows We’re Obsessed With (and a Few We’d Totally Win)
Friday May 09, 2025
Friday May 09, 2025
🎙️ Hot Flash Chronicles – Episode: Reality TV: The Reality TV Shows We’re Obsessed With (and a Few We’d Totally Win) 📺💖
Trashy, Touching, Totally Addictive—Let’s Talk Reality Television
In this wildly entertaining episode, Angie & Shelly dive deep into the world of reality TV—from dating shows like Love Is Blind and The Bachelor, to transformation favorites like The Great British Bake Off and HGTV home reno magic. Whether you’re Team Emotional Connection or Team Competitive Chaos, we’re dishing on the shows that make us laugh, cry, binge-watch, and scream at our screens.
🍿 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
💘 Dating Show Breakdowns – From 90 Day Fiancé to The Golden Bachelor, we explore the social dynamics, love stories, and hot mess moments that keep us watching.
🍰 Wholesome Competition – Why The Great British Bake Off is a masterclass in kindness, good sportsmanship, and tearful muffins.
🏠 Home Makeovers & Human Emotions – The secret ingredient that makes renovation shows like Fixer Upper and Trading Spaces so damn compelling.
📦 We Love a Glow-Up – Why humans are psychologically drawn to transformation stories (and why we all want a home organizer to magically declutter our lives).
🎤 The Wild World of Reality Stars – The ones who jump from show to show (looking at you, Big Brother & Survivor alums), and what we think of “professional reality TV contestants.”
🎯 If We Were Reality Stars – Which shows would we be on? (Spoiler: one of us would totally crush Nailed It and the other would start alliances on The Traitors.)
📢 Follow & Support the Podcast!🎧 Podcast Episodes: https://hotflashchroniclespodcast.podbean.com🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hot-flash-chronicles/id1802239722🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f8iMNCItgjL79nC1jXA5w📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles💖 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles🌐 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles
💬 Are you a reality TV junkie? What’s your favorite guilty pleasure show—and which one would you totally crush as a contestant? Drop us a comment, DM, or dramatic rose ceremony confession. 🌹🎬



Monday May 05, 2025
20. Risky Business: How We Leap (and Sometimes Faceplant)
Monday May 05, 2025
Monday May 05, 2025
🎙️ Hot Flash Chronicles – Episode: Risky Business: How We Leap (and Sometimes Faceplant) 🎢🔥
Life’s Too Short for "What Ifs." Let’s Talk About Risk, Reward, and Rolling the Dice.
In this bold episode, Angie & Shelly get real about what it means to take chances—from career leaps to garden plots to scary new beginnings. Whether you’re a ready-fire-aim person or a crockpot-decision-maker, this one’s about chasing dreams (even if you get a little muddy along the way).
What’s Inside This Episode?
🎯 Defining "Risk" – Why risk feels scary, why it’s necessary for growth, and why it’s not always about bungee jumping.
💸 Career Leaps of Faith – Angie and Shelly share the biggest risks they took in their careers—and why they wouldn’t go back.
🌱 Garden Gambles – From planters to canning ambitions, when starting small feels like a big (and worthwhile) chance.
🧠 Microwave Decisions vs. Crockpot Thinking – How we make decisions, when to trust your gut, and when it’s smarter to slow cook your choices.
❤️ Relationship Risks – Loving big, trusting deep, and understanding that sometimes the scariest risks have the sweetest rewards.
🔄 Risk vs. Reward in Different Seasons – Why risk-taking looks different in your 20s, 40s, and 60s—and how to keep saying yes to life without losing your mind.
📢 Follow & Support the Podcast!🎧 Podcast Episodes: https://hotflashchroniclespodcast.podbean.com🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hot-flash-chronicles/id1802239722🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f8iMNCItgjL79nC1jXA5w📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles💖 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles🌐 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles
🚀 Your comfort zone is cozy—but nothing grows there. Tell us about a risk you took (big or small!)—we’d love to cheer you on. 🎉



Friday May 02, 2025
19. Momming: From Binkies to Boundaries
Friday May 02, 2025
Friday May 02, 2025
🎙️ Hot Flash Chronicles – Episode: Momming: From Binkies to Boundaries 🍼🚗
Raising Tiny Humans... and Somehow Staying (Mostly) Sane
In this heartfelt (and hilarious) episode, Angie & Shelly get real about momming—from navigating newborn chaos to tackling the teenage years to adjusting to the bittersweet empty nest. Whether you’re a new parent, seasoned vet, bonus mom, or proud auntie, this conversation is for you.
What’s Inside This Episode?
👶 The Early Days – Diapers, snacks, and the glorious moment when they can finally pour their own cereal.
🥦 Toddlers, Teens & Feeding Battles – From yogurt pouch hoarding to “you finish that cupcake before more carrots,” the food fights are real.
💬 Words of Affirmation & Love Languages – How knowing your child's (and your partner's) love language can completely change your relationship.
🧠 Teenage Turmoil – Why teenagers need you more than ever (even if they pretend they don’t).
🏡 Empty Nest Vibes – Transitioning into a new phase when your kids are grown, and finding the joy (and discounts!) that come with it.
❤️ Giving Grace – Why you’re doing better than you think and how every child is just figuring it out, same as you.
📢 Follow & Support the Podcast!🎧 Podcast Episodes: https://hotflashchroniclespodcast.podbean.com🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hot-flash-chronicles/id1802239722🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f8iMNCItgjL79nC1jXA5w📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HotflashChronicles💖 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hotflashchronicles📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HotFlashChronicles📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotflashchroniclespodcast🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hotflashchronicles🌐 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hotflashchronicles
👩👧👦 You're doing an amazing job, whether you're rocking a diaper bag, fielding teenage eye-rolls, or enjoying grandbaby snuggles. Keep going—you’re exactly who they need. 💖